Things I Have Learned From Ladies Who Have Dumped Me

By Melissa Clark

Okay, I will admit, I've been dumped. More than once. More than I would like to confess, essentially. And, even though it hurt quite a lot everytime, I want to say that I have grown from the experiences. So, these are some things I've learned from ladies who ve dumped me.

Things I have Learned from Women Who ve Dumped Me one : It takes 2.

Often with the agony and heartbreak of a break-up, it is easy to blame the other person for your misery. But the reality is that if the relationship was no longer working, you were part of the issue. Evaluate what is going on so you can apply the lessons to your next relationship.

Things I have Learned from Women Who ve Dumped Me two : Give girls their private space.

Women like to cuddle and snuggle. They may appear to always be around. But they need their private space too. Men have a tendency to be possessive. We wish to keep an eye on where they are going and what they are doing there. If any girl has ever cheated on you, this instinct becomes stronger. But, trust is a key element in a relationship. When you invade her private space, you send the message that you don't trust your girlfriend. This will simply lead to the end of the relationship.

Things I have Learned from Girls Who ve Dumped Me three : You get stronger over time.

When you wake up in the morning and the hurt's so real, you can believe that you are going to never get over the break up. But the reality is that not only does time heal all agony, but you will emerge from the break up a more robust person. As philosopher Frederick Nietzsche related, "that which does not kill me only makes me stronger."

Things I've Learned from Ladies Who ve Dumped Me four : It's O.K if it wasn't meant to be.

Coming to accept a relationship wasn't meant to be is a key factor in healing. If you had started projecting your relationship into the future - considering marriage, contemplating youngsters - and then the lady you were with broke everything off, regard it a blessing. It's miles better to end a relationship that wasn't meant to be earlier instead of later.

Things I've Learned from Women Who ve Dumped Me #5: Good things don't occur unless you make them happen.

Finally, the last lesson I need to share with you is that you can not control what happened, but you can control to how you react to what occurred. If you'd like good things to happen in the future, you have to make them happen.

That means getting back on the pony. Go out, meet new ladies. Have some fun. Eventually, you will find another relationship. And, if you have followed the recommendation in this article about things I have learned from women who ve dumped me, the relationship will be even better and stronger than the last one.

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