Spiritual Action

When your own ex girlfriend begins to date another man, it can make your world seem cold and lonely. This experience you're having makes total sense, too; often times we let a relationship take the majority of our lives, and when a relationship is over it can take your self-assurance and felicity right down with it. In this article I'm going to give you some advice that will help you make your ex girlfriend come back to you.

While there are a variety of reasons that cause a relationship to end, it all comes down to one thing -- your girlfriend ultimately lost attraction for you. It can be hard to admit, but let's face it. Women are emotional creatures, and cannot really control their powerful emotions. If a woman is drawn to and in love with a man, she is not able to leave him. This is why you see gorgeous ladies staying in relationships with jerks against their own better judgment.

I don't want you to lose hope when you hear this news, though. I'm not saying that it's too late to get your girlfriend back, because it's not by any stretch of the imagination. I've seen it happen before. What you need is a unique insight into female psychology. When you understand what makes women tick, you can use that knowledge to your advantage. Some of you may be wary of this "manipulative" approach, but let me explain something to you.

What is the harm in you getting your girlfriend back (even if you have to use a few manipulative tactics) if the only reason you want her back is to make her happy? There are a lot of bad men out there, and so if your intentions are to treat your girlfriend with love and kindness, then you should not feel bad about getting her back in any way possible. In this case, the ends justify the means.

Don't be a sucker and think that simply by being a nice guy you can attract your girlfriend to you again. Try that strategy, and she'll wind up closer and closer to this new guy she's with. In order to get real results, you are going to have to make her want you all over again.

I hope that these words are encouraging for you, because you genuinely can get your girlfriend back by attracting her once more. This new man may have the advantage of freshness, but you have the advantage of truly knowing and caring for your ex girlfriend in a way that other men will find hard to match. Mix that with a little bit of attraction, and bingo, you're in.

Remember, if you learn to truly understand what makes your girlfriend tick and use that knowledge to your advantage, you'll have an advantage over every other guy who tries to come into her life, including this new guy that she's currently with. And then getting her back will become a trivial matter, because she'll come back on her own.